“Jinki Condition Serious Hai”, ! Five Stars contest

A Memory Of childhood

“Jinki Condition Serious Hai”, Wow…! Five Stars chooses very unusual topic for the contest. Splendid…, thought provoking…! Isn’t it…??

It is really very interesting topic and when I got the mail from IndiBlogger.com, I started thinking on this topic and when I went into the arms of sleep, I didn't know. And imagine what…?? The topic was present in my dream too. Human faces with different type of facial expressions were roaming in my dream, the most prominent facial expression was smiley but sooner their appearance became lesser and lesser and a different type of facial expression was in the canvas of my dream. That faces just looked like stone face and creating fear in mind and heart.

“Oh…! I was sweated in the dream, even though that was freezing winter night. I awakened before my dream turned into a nightmare.  What a horrible facial expressions on their faces…! Anger, Hatred, greed types of intense expressions was present on those faces and they were undoubtedly in a serious condition.

I don’t know people realize or not that there are some people are like “Jinki Condition Serious Hai”.Such people are unaffected by any type of circumstances. Neither of winter or summer or rainy or spring season can change their facial expression. So, what do you say… about jinki condition serious hai...? Whenever you encounter such people and you look at their faces; what is your first reaction …? They seem you like, how unhappy person he or she is …! When would he or she be smile last time?

We always meet Jinki Condition Serious Hai type people, if somebody says ‘no’; he is a liar. It is a very dangerous type of diseases, if it catches somebody; it never ever leaves such person.

Anyways these thoughts were roaming in my mind. And in the middle of night, I was aging trying to catch my sleep. Sooner; I was diving into the ocean of dream. I was confronting with the same dream. A very familiar condition serious type face was repeatedly appearing and disappearing in my dream. 

Yes…Yes…I recognized that face. And he seriously belongs to “Jnki Condition Serious Hai” facility. And now I moved down through the memory lane, where I am going to revive my childhood days. I was recalling that familiar face – very serious with prominent lines of anger on the face. 

“Oh …! I got it, that face was of Pandey sir. And that remembrance revived the sweet memories of my childhood again. Pandey sir was my class teacher in 5th standard. He was very expressive personality in the context of Jindki Condition Serious Hai. I fail to remember any such moment in which I saw any change in his face. His face was like a stone face with stone heart .He looked as an angry man and the lines that developed on his face due to intense anger was so prominent that had been a part of his personality. He could be recognized very easily at a distance.

Confronting such people is a hard task and my whole class including me experienced it daily. Nobody knew who would be the victim of his anger? He had a long thin stick in hand to punish the student. Mostly student s was punished for not doing the homework and that practice was applied on 10-15 students daily. When the stick was waved in the class, the sound of that stick echoed into the heart of every student and it is still dwelling in my heart and mind too. 

One day the whole class decided to make him smile. But the biggest question was …How…? So we made a plan. The whole class decided not to do the homework for next day. And you can’t imagine… what happened next day. The whole class stood on the bench and was waiting for the punishment. When Pandey sir entered into the class and saw the scene, a big question mark of surprise on his face

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“Wow...! That was a big surprise for us. The expression of stone face was changed. We opened our hand in front of him for the punishment. He had a great surprise on his face and the question mark for our act. He asked us for the home work and we nodded our head in no. He was speechless for some moment and then he laughed so vigorously that shook the whole class. And what happened…then is now a History.

One question is still to discover. Why are some people just like” Jinki Condition Serious Hai”…?? I find only one reason; they have a negative attitude towards life. What is the reason for this…? I think it lies in their upbringing and the circumstances of childhood. The negative attitude towards life compels a person turns into jinki condition serious hai like people.

One question is for everyone. How do you feel … when you encounter such person…? How can you tolerate or bear such person … if you have to spend 6-8 hours with such person.

  

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Who is to be blamed..?

Humanity At Stake-Who is to be blamed..?

The year 2012 has passed, nothing is special to say about it, but it left it’s footprints on the stone of Time in such a hilarious way that will be echoed into the ears of humanity for hundreds of centuries. We all know the Delhi Rape Case and Connecticut Massacre; both inhuman mishaps need not any introduction and description again. Even common man avoids remembering these. The reaction was world wide and this is still going on as a chain reaction like nuclear fission.  Once it was seemed that these mishappenings will change the course of civilization but it would be early to say.

Delhi Rape victim

 

Both inhuman crime left some question behind them and their answers are still to be resolved. The biggest question is ‘Why’ this type of inhuman behavior occurs repeatedly. We don’t want to learn from them and we are taking them for granted. Is this a good sign of civilized society or nation…??

We need to find out the reason behind such inhuman incidents. One thing is sure: there are many factors acting simultaneously. We will try to find out the reasons.- 

Social Structure:-Indian society is Male dominated and Male Oriented. And the norms and regulation are different for male and female, better to say, they were framed by Males only. She couldn’t have and can have active role in the religious ceremonies. She is a mere shadow of man for thousands of years .She is not imagined as an independent existence, so she is not rather than one of the commodity of home. She has to be protected by man only. Such social norms that won’t give a woman freedom, How can be the woman will be taken as an independent personality.

Prejudice of Society about woman:-In Indian Society without any differentiation of religion, Woman is said to be dependent upon man only. And he has a right to take any decision about woman at his wish and call. If a woman is a commodity to use and throw, so she will be treated like wise and it has being practiced since past 5 thousands of years. This is the extreme end of insensitivity of a 21^st Century Society towards a human being. Are we living in Stone Age…?? Ask this question to yourself and try to find out the answer.

Changing Social Scenario: - The last 6-7 years of Indian Society was the period of drastic changes. Basically the Indian society is family based. The family bonding is very strong for thousands of years but there are some changes visible very clearly. The social bond that was strictly imposed on the society to keep this bond static is becoming loose. Those changes aren’t being ignored because the statistical graph of Rape is going upward drastically. That is 300-400% more than the previous years. The reason is the adaptation of Western Life Style. Most of the people don’t agree upon my opinion but deep down in their heart and in their subconscious, they know that it is true. We don’t ignore and avoid the reality, if we do so, we won’t stop the consequences like Delhi Gang Rape. No doubt, there isn’t any wrong thing in the western life style. We physically adopted it and the openness of the western style is in our external behavior means it reflects through our clothes only not through our mind and heart. In West woman has a full freedom as an individual as man. Whatever woman can wear, people take it as an appreciation to woman. There isn’t any type of bondage or barrier for a woman to move around. She can be behaved in a very civilized way as man. The western life style is very transparent but In India, we change its meaning and we follow it according to our convenience. But our thinking is thousands of centuries old towards woman. If we adopted the freedom to living, we have to follow the freedom of thoughts towards woman too.

The government's wavering attitude:-Whenever something wrong happens at national level, Indian government doesn’t take any stand until or unless people make hue and cry. At national level the insensitivity spreads in every walk of life and it is at a very high rate. And the same attitude is governed by the government too. Whatever Inhuman Crime was staged in Delhi this time was protested all over the world and the image of India was spoiled worldwide. The capital of India is infamous as Rape Capital. The government of India awakes at once and the people of India too. But brave victim of Delhi Rape is still waiting for justice.

Role of Police: - The role of Indian police is always suspicious. No one can believe in the police of the nation. Here mentioning the role of police is just waste of time and words.

But I strongly believe that a day shall come when Indian people would have healthy thinking for woman and the nation will respect the dignity of woman and her individuality not take her as a commodity. 

 ---------------------------------------Veena Sethi--------------

This post is part of the contest Who is to be blamed? on WriteUpCafe.com

 

Self Improvment- Mind and heart

Listen to the mind and the heart but When?

Mind and Heart in boxing ring

Life passes through so a many phases and sometime it comes across to a situation where we do not decide – what to do? Our heart says some thing and we decide something else. But that state of dilemma is not that much expensive, that we can’t bear with the burden of our decision. Our mind accepts but the heart rejects. Then at this stage – what should we do? That is very important, so at the time it is better to take a wise and balanced decision. Whatever we do in our life, it is our self decision, and so whether it is right or wrong, we have to face the consequences

To do or not to do Situation-

That is the To Do or Not to Do situation. We are in-between the mind and heart.This In-between circumstances compel a person to reach to some conclusion and take some decision. If he or she doesn’t take any decision, he will be surrounded by stress and anxiety. Circumstances compel him or her to that extend that he or she can't even believe in himself  or herself and he requires other’s opinion or advice. Seeking of opinion of others is not wrong. But other don't understand the circumstances well enough through which we are passing . Small things are even important. This thing can be understood, who has faced the same situation.

It is said that woman thinks from heart and man through mind. So women are emotionally stronger than man..., so having delicate heart; sentiments dominate her. And due to it, if she faces any trouble; she doesn’t perplex.

The voice of heart and mind:-

Mind Over Heart OR Heart Over Mind

 Whenever we heard the voice of our heart, the decision is taken in a hurry. Because emotions neither ready to listen to anyone’s voice and doesn’t analyze the situation and it's outcoming results. But the mind whenever thinks, it analyses both the good and the bad aspects, and then person takes the right step into right direction.

Some subjects are related to mind and some are to the heart. Suppose you think that life partner is cheating you, so you have to decide whether to continue this relation or not? In this tug of war of both mind and heart act together. Actually this is a cycle, where heart says, “ May be he relaise his mistake and will correct it,so there is no need to think about separation”. But the mind doesn’t agree and think – how can I believe in such life  a partner, who is deceiving me. Who knows...! he can't cheat again? When you think about that very important part of your life that is affecting you to a great extend,listen to the voice of your mind.

 It often happens; we listen to the voice of our heart due to the presence of others and become stressful. So better if we draw some limit, where we put emphasis on the emotional side and where we give wait to the decisive side. If there is no any negative effect of it, go with your heart. But if the circumstances are not under your control, it is wise to take decision through mind.

Your opinion towards life:-

In the tug war of mind and soul: it depends upon the ability of the endurance of a person and the level of his thinking. In which form he asses the life. Sometime it happens that a thing that is ignored at a level, is unbearable at different stages. At this stage, use the brain and think- Why is it happening to me? Previously wasn’t it thought carefully?

Listen to the heart:-

Whatever your heart suggests you, it might be right up to some extent. When the question arises about your future and your family is imposing their decision on you. Then go with your heart because at this time you are right. In early stages your family won’t go with your decision but one day they will realize that you were right.

Heart always says right. That is not fully correct. At this stage if somebody takes any decision emotionally, he or she would be wrong and the consequences will be born by him only. So be careful when you are standing at the crossroad of your life and you are not in a position to take right decision. At that time follow your mind because your mind suggests you right path.

            Some people are of the nature that they always take decision through heart and get failure. But they do not regret about it. These type of people love to live in present.

The mutual pulling of mind and heart always goes on, because this is the axis of human life. It is better to know, when to use mind and when to use heart. Keep a proper balance. It would be better if other do not interfere in your life because nobody understands your situation better than you.

                                                                             Veena Sethi.