Be a Melbournian ...

Melbourne: An untold story.   

Life is a Journey-It is a well known quote about life. In the busy and hectic life schedule, where work is the only motto and motive of life and everyone becomes the part of rat race. Everyone is running aimlessly not to reach any where- this turns the life stressful and tiring. Now the question is- How to ease the stress...? Traveling to new places, explore new destination and meeting people there are some good tonics for a stressful life. Exploring new destination in a foreign trip is becoming popular in the Indian Subcontinent and fortunately Indi Blogger is getting this chance through "Melbourne Now Contest".

"Melbourne Now Contest" knocks at the doorstep of my thought and it also gives me a random thought too. If I would win this contest, what would I like to bring back the experiences from that city...? So, it is the show time... Now I am on an Imaginary and Virtual visit to Melbourne....Hey...! But wait; without any information, it isn't possible to travel. Yes I can make my journey easy and possible if I gather information from http://www.visitmelbourne.com/in.

Melbourne’s most attractive sites- Otway Fly Treetop Adventures, Melbourne Museum, Federation Square, Melbourne Cricket Ground, Old Melbourne Gaol Crime and Justice Experience, Eureka Sky deck 88, Werribee Open Range Zoo, Crown Entertainment Complexes, Healesville Sanctuary, Science Works, Melbourne Aquarium, Queen Victoria Market, Puffing Billy Steam Railway, Werribee Mansion, Sovereign Hill, Flagstaff Hill Maritime Village, Gum San Chinese Heritage Centre, National Gallery of Victoria, Melbourne Zoo and Central Deborah Gold Mine and many more. 

The heritage buildings like Werribee Mansion, Como House and Garden, Royal Exhibition Building, Old Melbourne Gaol Crime and Justice Experience, Shrine of Remembrance,

While gathering the information the suggestive sight scene that attracts a passionate nature lover and adventurer like me is Otway Fly Treetop Adventures-One Location two adventures. Located in Victoria's magnificent Otways providing visitors with a unique opportunity to view the forest from a bird's eye view through its two unique Eco-adventure experiences, the famous Tree Top walk and Zip Line tour. You can also experience the tree top walk -that is the longest and tallest elevated walk of its own king in the world.

Otway Fly Treetop Adventures

Melbourne isn't empty at any point in natural scene sights. Lavish parks, gardens and waterways are just like the beauty spots of Melbourne. Nature Lovers feel at home in the greenery of Melbourne and its surroundings. I have no words if I would experience all these.

Beyond Melbourne- Great Southern Touring Route, Yarra Valley And Dandenong Ranges, Great Ocean Walk, Great Ocean Road, Phillip Island, Skiing, Southern East touring route, Mornington Peninsula and other attractive thing like -food and drink, spa, family activities and many more activities that a tourist likes.

 I was thrilled and excited, thinking that this might be my one of the memorable foreign tours. Once again I would have a chance to meet new people and would have new friendship. But one thing is disturbing me- what was happened in Australia in last couple of years with Indians and the whole world witnessed it through TV Channels and News papers…Indians were attacked and killed in different parts of Australia. That was done in the name of racial hatred or it was something else-It is still a question mark. So I have in my mind-visit or not to visit Melbourne. Would it be unsafe to visit there...?? It was really unfortunate –but I should go there; otherwise I wouldn’t over come my fear, in this way I would understand the situation in a better way there. My real motive of this visit is to create a cultural bridge between the people of both countries and erase the bad memories- what had happened within last couple of years in Australia. I would like to meet the aboriginals of Australia- who are the representative of original Australian culture and heritage. So what do you say…??  

-------------------------------------------Veena Sethi------------------------------------------------

In Melbourne--

Images courtesy- http://www.visitmelbourne.com/in.

Behavior...1

KEEP SMiLiNG

Whenever you meet somebody, meet with a cheerful smile but it comes through your heart not through the lips.It also creates positive attitude in you and people will pay attention towards you. If you want to rock any party, experience this and adopt it as a part of your life. Your smiling behavior motivates others to follow your attitude. So always KEEP SMILING.

Words------1

Hurdles and difficulties

Hurdles and difficulties are your well wisher. They teach you to use your power in right direction. Until and unless difficulties don't come in our life , we don't understand the meaning and relevance of life. Difficulties teaches us - How to be clam in the odd time of life. Difficulties are our friends not the enemy and it suggests the way that- How to face and solve the hurdles.The lesson we can learn from the difficulties is- How can we smile at it.

motivation-A positive force

 motivate others

Motivation is a word that contains a positive force and emotion. Every person is well equipped with that emotion. If fills a person with courage and zeal and more over enthusiastic to do something in life. Every person of any age needs that emotion from others to blossom in zeal.

An ill person needs the lovable inspiration to get well soon. Children want to be motivated by their parent. Artist, writer also wants to be inspired.

Although work is more important in development of human civilization but the inspiration of work comes through only motivation. Every person does his work at his own but his work gets shape through the inspiration of others.

Motivation is an Art:-

Motivation is an art. That every person should know, but don’t put this quality in the category of flattery or false praise. Being a well wisher when motivation is given to others as an emotional force, it is good enough and successful.

Motivation is such a gift that can be given to anybody and without spending any money, and in return anybody gets praise. Motivation has marvelous effect. A person, who is inspired, has a specific glow on his faces rather then a person who is uninspired. You can also understand the power of motivation when you will experience it.

Motivation is a gift:-

Motivation on one side inspires the person to do his work with courage and zeal on the other side it creates a magic in his qualities and personality as well. On the contrary when a person is being discouraged his qualities are being disappeared.

Motivation increases self confidence in a person and makes him self reliant. If your inspiration motivates others and their personality develops, you will be happy. So be ready to give this gift to everybody, every time and in any circumstances. Motivate others and gain self satisfaction.

Anger....an emotion to discover

Anger: The Pessimistic Emotion of Human Nature

Man holds many different types of emotions- love, affection, faith joy, courage. These are optimistic type of emotions and sorrow, pain, hatred, anger, jealousy are some of the pessimistic emotions.

Irrupted Anger

  Anger is the most intense and violent type of pessimistic emotion or excitement. It dominates the human mind. Anger is moved by the heart, mind cannot control it. Anger has room in the heart as profound slept seed and it bursts up when circumstances and reasons favors for its irruption.

Anger is Circumstantial: - When does anger irrupt? Why does it erupt? It is undecided and uncertain. But whenever anger is generated circumstances are responsible for it. Most of the time society and family are responsible for it. When a person is rebuked or punished without any reason or on false ground, and it happens repeatedly, that leads to disappointment and pessimism. Such situations are unbearable for the victim. Anger arises inside him, suddenly he becomes violent and on the contrary he opposes the situation violently and vigorously.

Intensity of Anger: - Anger is an intense feeling and it depends upon the intensity of the circumstances. It starts with the use of abusive words, comments, symbolic words and body gesture that hurts the emotions of any person. As per reaction anger suddenly irrupts and makes the person intolerant, peevish and uneasy. He looses self control; he can sustain anger up to some limit. In simple word anger is reaction of such actions.
Once anger starts, after sometime temperament of that person is so high that he becomes so violent and can commit some crime and that is the end of his anger. At this stage mind subsides the anger. When person returns to his normal state, he regrets to his act.
Another type of circumstances that creates anger is business rivalry that is very frequent in present day's world.

Intense Anger

Impatient person is very easily being the victim of anger. This type of person has no patience to wait for sometime. He wants action at once as he demands for something. Otherwise he looses his temper and starts taking unrestrainedly and makes the atmosphere full of tension. He reproaches for a short period. Better if nobody notices him, he becomes normal soon.
Anger has neither any shape nor any type. It depends upon human nature. People with different nature hold anger with different intensity and sharpness: -

• Some people who are of 'come and go' type. Anger arises in him and suddenly disappears. It is just like a line that is drawn on the water by the wooden stick that disappears as it is formed on the water surface.
• If intensity is slight high, anger stays for sometimes just like a line on sand that disappears by wind after sometime.

• Some person are of very cruel type and they adopt anger of a aggressive intensity, their anger is just like the line that is drawn on hard earth and neither can be wiped out by the water or can be effaced by air current. The line is erased with efforts, so as the anger.

Anger arises effortlessly on those who retains or adopts pessimistic emotions like jealously hatred etc. For them the world seems to be the great enemy for them. They can be violent and even commit crime for worthless things.

Constructive And Destructive Anger: - the cumulative anger is of destructive type. It seems in racial, social and caste conflict. This type of anger has changes the course of History so a many times.

Anger can be constructive or destructive; it depends upon the emotional setback that originates due to the injustice. On first hand any person tries to ignore the circumstances that develop due to injustice but if it is done repeatedly and he just bears all these up to the limit of patience. And he opposes it and fight for that injustice. This is constructive anger. The example is Mahatma Gandhi, who fought against the racism in the South Africa when he was thrown away from the first class compartment of the train by a White Ticket Collector, at that time the Blacks were not allowed to travel in the first class of the train in the South Africa.

Anger As a power:-

• Anger shouldn't be up to that extend that it controls the mind and the heart.
• It is natural but the point is how a person reacts over it.
• If the person can control the anger, he will be the winner other wise the looser.
• If anger irrupts due to the injustice, it can be the inspirational force that motivates a person. But if it should be remain when the anger disappears, constructive results can't be achieved. For this better if the victim always remembers the injustice to motivate him.
• Angry person can easily be misguided and he is used as a tool.
• Aggression and passion for the aim are must to achieve the success. Sometimes it develops through anger in some people so anger becomes inspirational to him.
• Anger has a power of creation that affects the humanity by and large, but this state of anger develops slowly like the germinating seed. After its appearance its stays and converts into creation. That is in the form of reforms in the society. History is the evidence of such anger.

• Anger that develops due to the weakness or lacking of something in the life can be constructive or destructive, depends upon the nature of a person.

Means to Control The Anger:-
Everybody knows anger irrupts like a volcano and is uncontrollable but there are ways to control anger.

Control of Anger

• First of all try to take yourself away from the atmosphere that creates the anger.
• Whenever anger explodes, start counting with effort.
• Try to walk fast or start taking deep breathes. Inhales deeply and exhales gently and slowly that helps to control the anger
• Whenever anger irrupts don't say anything and keep silence that gives you sometime to think about the situation.
• When the anger settles down, think about the situation and try to find the reason for the anger. We can't control the situation but can control ourselves.
• Whenever anger appears it should be mold into another direction. Better if a person consume his anger in some other work, it is difficult to do in normal conditions. The results will be better.

• If a person knows the reason of the anger, next time when he will come across the same situation, better if he stops doing work because angry person is more abusive and arrogant.

The best way is to control anger is live a disciplined life and develop the habit of self control. It would be fine enough if you don't welcome anger as your difficulty. Make anger your friend not your enemy.

                                                                 Veena Sethi.

 

My Quotes

My Quotes on Relationship

@A true relation is above all type of bonding...that is always unconditional relationship.

@A true Relationship never ever ends in any type of external pressure.

@A relationship continues only with mutual understanding. 

@A relation born,grows and develops only when it is understood fully.

My first poem-I alone.

                                                      

I alone

ignorant of the way:

On the path of life,

with a caravan of dream

Move on.

The storm rising on the way;

scattered the dreams away.

Again

with a will together;

them together.

I alone

Trade on the solitary land;

Sometimes,

Along the murmuring stream of passion;

Sometimes,

preaching the sorrowing woods

On the way

offering all the dreams.

I alone

with the ray of hope:

On the dark path;

En candle   the lamps of Hope

Fill all the hearts with mirth;

move on.

And  

determined to make my own

the agony of others.

I alone

Carrying sweet smell of livings;

make the path sweet scented'

Having goal world

to all fragrance scatter on.

Desirous of sweeping away

the woos of Earth.

I alone 

Ignorant of destination;

On my way 

Move on

I alone.

I alone.

( This is my first poem - I wrote it when I was in 12th -I don't my this effort is in right path or I should stop writing poem in English.I need your comment to know about my writings.Waiting for your reaction.Veena Sethi.)