Listen to the mind and the heart but When?
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| Mind and Heart in boxing ring |
Life passes through so a many phases and sometime it comes across to a situation where we do not decide – what to do? Our heart says some
thing and we decide something else. But that state of dilemma is not that much
expensive, that we can’t bear with the burden of our decision. Our mind accepts
but the heart rejects. Then at this stage – what should we do? That is very important,
so at the time it is better to take a wise and balanced decision. Whatever we
do in our life, it is our self decision, and so whether it is right or wrong,
we have to face the consequences
To do or not to do
Situation-
That is the To Do or Not to Do situation. We are in-between
the mind and heart.This In-between circumstances compel a person to reach
to some conclusion and take some decision. If he or she doesn’t take any decision, he
will be surrounded by stress and anxiety. Circumstances compel him or her to that
extend that he or she can't even believe in himself or herself and he requires other’s opinion or
advice. Seeking of opinion of others is not wrong. But other don't understand
the circumstances well enough through which we are passing . Small things are
even important. This thing can be understood, who has faced the same situation.
It is said that woman thinks from heart and man through mind.
So women are emotionally stronger than man..., so having delicate heart;
sentiments dominate her. And due to it, if she faces any trouble; she doesn’t
perplex.
The voice of heart and mind:-
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| Mind Over Heart OR Heart Over Mind |
Whenever we heard the voice of our
heart, the decision is taken in a hurry. Because emotions neither ready to
listen to anyone’s voice and doesn’t analyze the situation and it's outcoming results. But the mind whenever
thinks, it analyses both the good and the bad aspects, and then person takes the
right step into right direction.
Some subjects are related to mind and some are to the heart.
Suppose you think that life partner is cheating you, so you have to decide
whether to continue this relation or not? In this tug of war of both mind and
heart act together. Actually this is a cycle, where heart says, “ May be he
relaise his mistake and will correct it,so there is no need to think about
separation”. But the mind doesn’t agree and think – how can I believe in such life a partner, who is deceiving me. Who knows...! he can't cheat again? When you think about that
very important part of your life that is affecting you to a great extend,listen to the voice of your
mind.
It often happens; we
listen to the voice of our heart due to the presence of others and become
stressful. So better if we draw some limit, where we put emphasis on the
emotional side and where we give wait to the decisive side. If there is no any
negative effect of it, go with your heart. But if the circumstances are not
under your control, it is wise to take decision through mind.
Your opinion towards life:-
In the tug war of mind and soul: it depends upon the ability
of the endurance of a person and the level of his thinking. In which form he
asses the life. Sometime it happens that a thing that is ignored at a level, is
unbearable at different stages. At this stage, use the brain and think- Why is
it happening to me? Previously wasn’t it thought carefully?
Listen to the heart:-
Whatever your heart suggests you, it might be right up to
some extent. When the question arises about your future and your family is
imposing their decision on you. Then go with your heart because at this time
you are right. In early stages your family won’t go with your decision but one
day they will realize that you were right.
Heart always says right. That is not fully correct. At this
stage if somebody takes any decision emotionally, he or she would be wrong and
the consequences will be born by him only. So be careful when you are standing
at the crossroad of your life and you are not in a position to take right
decision. At that time follow your mind because your mind suggests you right
path.
Some people
are of the nature that they always take decision through heart and get failure.
But they do not regret about it. These type of people love to live in present.
The mutual pulling of mind and heart always goes on, because
this is the axis of human life. It is better to know, when to use mind and when
to use heart. Keep a proper balance. It would be better if other do not
interfere in your life because nobody understands your situation better than
you.
Veena Sethi.
